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Jolynn Chew Wen Yu
Ngee Ann Poly (ECH)
She loves to gossip, but when she doesn't talk, don't force her
She's trying to be nice, don't make her turn nasty
She's not someone you will deem as CHIO, but don't try to put her down
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good-looking people DUH !!!
japanese food !!!
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chilling out (depends on company la)
<3s that him who doesn't love me
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heartbreakers
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if you hate me, i hate you too =p
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a new phone, haven't decided which one though
a good figure DREAM ON!!!
less nasty temper (still working on it)
for him to come back to me IMPOSSIBLE
to be happy, i try ....








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Friday, September 14, 2007
i've found my new love. so i'm abandoning the old one =xxx sorry my darling LOL !! but you are too sickening haha.

http://sweeter-cherries.blogspot.com =)))


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9/14/2007 02:13:00 AM



Thursday, September 06, 2007




















NNB !!! haha copy from wilson again =xxx damn funny la !!! haha. he find de video always so funny de, cannot blame haha.

got a recent craze with youtube. always watch those old shows and stuff like that la. spent most of my time on it somemore =xxx now i know why kai yuan love youtube so much haha.

kinda miss all my friends. er jie !!! meet up soon !! for swimming haha. and not forgetting my 20 bucks LOL !!! i'm so broke boohoo.

and so who's gonna solve that damned template problem ??? i wanna post the pictures in the new blog so that it's a better start than my rantings isn't it. so someone pls save me =(((


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9/06/2007 11:29:00 PM



Tuesday, September 04, 2007

how to become a better couple


1 --> be realistic about each other

Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical app
earance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials ! or treat ments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.

2 --> talk things out
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.

3 --> do stuff together
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road . Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!

4 --> meet each other halfway
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy. There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.

5 --> show your love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.

6 --> respect each other
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.

7 --> bury the past
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.

8 --> sit on your jealousy
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finally killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.

9 --> keep your commitments to each other
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.

10 --> be honest
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probabl! y isn't worth it!




sth interesting i got from KG's blog. if i had been able to do 5 out of 10 of it, my previous rltsps could have survived longer instead of the 1-3 months thing. sucha failure la .....

i seriously hope for blogger to revert to the previous template settings where they allow us to publish our templates first, so from there we can see what's wrong then go edit it. instead of not publishing it then tell me some alien terms which i try so hard but can't figure them out. KNNB !!!


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9/04/2007 03:32:00 PM



NNB !!! wanted to blog and post more pictures de lor. i created a new blog cause am sick of this one already i don't know why. then kuku de, suddenly the template so hard to do. say what the entity must be "&" next to the entity reference then dunno what must end with ";" delimeter. catch no balls la, so won't be doing further updates until i get that damned thing done.

will inform you guys of the new webby once it's done up. since i see the recent coldness in the taggy, i suppose everyone see the vid but lazy to upload right !!! ADMIT !!! haha.

well .... i hope everyone is ok, and i bloody hope blogger don't gimme its PMS anymore !!! $%#$#%^^%&^*


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9/04/2007 03:27:00 AM



Wednesday, August 29, 2007
MUAHAHA, stumbled across this on wilson's blog. kinda true and funny so i thought i'll share it with you guys =))) enjoy !!!



funny right !!! haha, at first i couldn't copy and paste the whole. spent like half an hour before it could work. but then when it can work the fonts can't change and stuff. so the font size is abit errr ... i dunno ... haha. bear with it ya. dunno if is it blogger change settings or what. hopefully next time will be ok ba if not i stop blogging =xxxx just kidding la haha.

hope you guys enjoyed the video !!! =ppp


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8/29/2007 03:49:00 AM



Monday, August 27, 2007
i'm very very busy recently ...... with sleep. i just can't get enough of it. without sleep, i get all grumpy and irritated.

i slept for 14 hours yesterday, and i still feel tired now. went for a stupid briefing that lasted for less than an hour which half of it was nothing but crap. wasted trip all the way to SP.

took train with kenny, but i alighted at raffles place to meet up with keng guan. go watch SECRET !!! muahaha don't box me. but seriously la, we dunno what was so touching about that story. half the time the audience were laughing. we didn't see anyone crying. when we thought of the story after the show, the first thing that came to my mind was ...........................

"when jay chou was writing this story, was he dreaming or what ??"

don't say touching la, i didn't even feel like crying can. i so emo de, still can laugh at the stupid story. maybe because the girls were jealous that one of the actresses get to kiss jay, or maybe because they were afraid that the huge heavy metal ball would kill their idol haha.

mediocre acting, but fantastic piano skills and beautiful settings haha. lucky i watch on monday plus the discount that NEBO card bring for us, i only paid $6. now i rmb, KG owes me a dollar muahaha !!!

went back suki to buy food then just nice ONN ONN came out. he just finish work la, then talk talk abit then his friend jiu call le =(( damn his friend haha.

am sooooooooooooooooooooo tired. i'm still wondering, the person who kanna accident is from my block but is he my friend ?? i don't dare to go see, but when i found the courage to, he chu bin already. i kept dreaming of the same two people, but i hope it's not them. =((( i don't wanna curse them choi choi choi !!!

benchers !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! who's going back to bowen, tag me !!!


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8/27/2007 11:25:00 PM



Friday, August 24, 2007
well ... ok !!! have not been blogging for the past few days. that time spam posts so make up for these days haha. i really feel like telling the whole world that my exams are over, but i still want my life. people during exams can be really outta their mind LMAO !!!

tuesday suddenly had the feeling no choir very weird haha, but think of so many days of the holiday are taken up by choir, i jiu sian full full liao. shit man, i hate that lo. well, no choice. but the timings really suck lor, can start practice at 6pm, then before that dunno what to do, go out halfway even more sian. KNS !!! waste my time haha.

wednesday was a hell lotsa fun. went to eat with the suki people ma. then i think about three tables there are all suki people, like big family gathering. took some photos but lazy to upload, also good for the readers' eyes haha.

my mum keep asking the same stupid question can !!!

"u all go and eat then suki close one day no need to work ar ???"

KAOS !!! of course got people work la haha, suki only got 15 staff meh. i think what we ate most are raw prawns, scallops and cream puffs haha. the regional manager went into the kitchen and took a whole bag of cream puffs for us LMAO !!! we almost died laughing la. the whole time i was sending songs here and there, until suki close also haven't send finish la haha. now at leas my phone not empty empty one =)))

it was really like a big big family la, i think the other customers were thinking why this bunch of people so crazy. cause that regional manager went in to take cream puffs ma, then shun bian take out orders and served the customers. of course they dunno he is our manager la, then they give that stupid face haha. stupid customers, where got customers serve customers. we already say so loud like they cannot hear we are all suki staff like that LOL !!! stupid !!! now i not working can scold them like f*** haha.

bought ciggies then took bus home, too full to walk haha.

was supposed to go back bowen with weenee today but that stupid tailor shop called to say that they won't be open tml nor the weekends, so i have to collect my gown today. TMD !!! have to pangseh weenee, so sorry !!!! after that meet nono, elmo, eugene and jeff plus a few other people i don't really know. play initial D ver4, quite expensive lo. but i think i'm improving haha. they waited ages for me to finish my food until all pek cek >.<

when playing pool at meridien (yes, the place where i performed with bowen chorale before), they suan me but i couldn't hear cause i was listening to songs haha. good not to know what u not supposed to know haha.

then nono's boss msged to say that he gave him the wrong info, sat he can take leave !!! WOOHOO !!! means can play mahjong !!! =pppp at first his boss say cannot then was kinda disappointed, now i very happy haha.

watching the movie "hairspray" tml. i so wanna watch "secret" but everybody seems to have watched it =((( boohoo !!!

"secret" anyone ???


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8/24/2007 01:44:00 AM